Mood:  caffeinated

 Went to meet a local sub for lunch today in spite of My thinking there wasn't any attraction chemically.  I just wanted to see if meeting in person would change My mind when I could smell his cologne if he wore any and see his body language.  In his picture he wasn't smiling and sometimes that can make a difference.  I don't much like the photos of them laughing with a woman on each arm or drunk with their buddies, but a nice smile would make a big difference in a lot of these guys!

 So he shows up and calmly looks around, sees Me watching, SMILES, and comes over.  He was very pleasant, maybe a bit nervous, but at least looked like his picture.  Unfortunately the smile didn't help the chemistry.  There was just nothing there outside of friendship.  Yes, I know, W/we can all use more friends, but I knew if I started seeing him he would pester to play and I wanted nothing of that sort of relationship.  They don't lead anywhere.  

The whole purpose of My quest is to find not just a sub that wants what I want 24/7 but one that can buy U/us a home in which to live.  And at O/our age, W/we don't have 30 years to pay a house off!